There's this sex advice columnist. He's gay, like your stepdad, but he fell in love with another guy, and they appear to have a strong relationship—they love each other, had a baby together, and seem to be committed. So why does this sex advice columnist occasionally check out "men seeking men" ads on the Internet? Because even though he has no plans to fuck other men, SNAFU, he nevertheless enjoys checking them out—on the street, on airplanes, at book signings, and on personals websites. But why would he check out "men seeking men" ads when he isn't seeking someone? Why not look at porn? Because sometimes it's more fun to check out real people who wanna be fucked than it is to check out fake people who are just pretending. Finding a search for "men seeking men" on your stepdad's computer tells us nothing about his intentions. And faithful or not, monogamous or not, seeking or not, it's none of your fucking business, is it?
Fuck buddies, friends with benefits, NSA—generally, HALFLAID, those arrangements can be healthy. But we're not speaking generally, are we? We're speaking of your specific situation. While NSA sex is taking care of your horniness, the secrecy makes you uncomfortable, and the sex leaves you feeling unfulfilled. I wouldn't describe the missing something as an emotional connection. After all, a person can have an emotional connection with a fuck buddy. No, what's missing is a sense of possibility, a sense that the sex could lead to something more lasting and more intimate. As you can't seem to feel good about the sex absent these things, I would describe NSA sex as unhealthy, from an emotional standpoint, for you. So knock it off.
I get at least one sad letter a month from gay-identified, pre-op FTMs who complain that they can't find any other gay guys who can get past the man-with-a-vagina thing. So it strikes me as odd that none of the GWPs that you approached were (1) gay-identified men, and (2) interested in you. So I'm putting your letter out there in hopes that some gay-identified FTMs will respond. What's up, guys with pies? Why isn't TIF having any luck?
A vaccine for two common strains of HPV, the virus that causes genital warts, is currently moving through the federal approval process. HPV can also cause cervical cancer in women, and these cancers kill 4,000 American women annually. Who could possibly be against a vaccine that has proven 100 percent effective in clinical tests and will save thousands of women's lives every year? Those "culture of life" assfucks, that's who.
Studies show that young men and women are still having premarital sex—no shit—despite the billions of dollars this administration pours into abstinence education. A study conducted at Texas A&M found that kids who've been subjected to abstinence-only sex education, the right's preferred brand, have more sex than kids who aren't subjected to it. So the right is saying they're willing to kill American women in order to avoid "sabotaging" their ineffectual abstinence-only message. Nice.
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